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第一次約會誰埋單? 3成女願各付各的

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單身男女第1次約會,誰來埋單?國內交友平台業者調查,逾7成的男性願意支付全部費用,僅1成多男人認為應該各付各的;在女生這邊,則有3成認同男方不須請客,以免雙方有壓力。

28歲的Amy說,第一次約會時,會選擇500元以內的餐廳用餐,並堅持各付各的。但曾有一次約會經驗是男性點了太多食物,卻要求她也必須負擔男性的部分餐費,讓她當下付完自己餐費後立即走人。

33歲的Bill說,男性既然約女生約會,費用如果在2000元以內,應該負責全額埋單,如果女生要求超出可負擔的4000元範圍,他為展現風度仍會結帳,但再也不會約這個女生第2次了。

「第1次約會,誰埋單?」這是批踢踢BBS站男女版常見的熱門話題。月老銀行日前隨機發出問卷調查,發現高達71%男性認為,第1次約會應該由男生負全責,逾5成女性認同男生該埋單;但不論男女,都不願由女生付全部帳單。

雖然網路「主流民意」是男女各付各的,但據調查,現實生活中僅11.9%男性認為第1次約會不用幫女生付錢,另有16.7%的男性含蓄地表示「沒意見」。

月老銀行兩性顧問曹雅芳指出,絕大多數的男性認為,付帳可展現紳士風度,如果主動要求女性也負擔費用,擔心會被認為小氣、甚至被直接拒絕往來。

不過,隨著女性教育水準、薪資收入日益提高,社會刻板印象應有改變。曹雅芳指出,這次調查結果,女性偏好各自付帳比例達31.3%,比前次調查提高3個百分點;男性全額埋單,確實會讓女性留下好印象,但也有不少女性認為,不知雙方後續進展前,初次約會各付各的,比較沒有壓力。

曹雅芳建議,男性切勿打腫臉充胖子,別在第1次約會高調闊氣滿足女性所有要求,應當量力而為,免得荷包大失血;女性不妨禮貌性的主動提議分擔費用,或者採用男性負擔餐費、女性買電影票回饋的方式,不必錙銖計較。

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